Rugby Players

Why are rugby players so comfortable with being naked around each other?  I mean, why does it seem that everytime you see rugby players after a game, they are drunk, singing and taking their clothes off?  I got no issues with it....I am just saying????

Stuff and More Stuff!

Why do I have some much stuff???? Because I shop...I forget I have the stuff and buy more stuff! Today I cleaned out my "wrapping paper closet" (doesnt everyone have a closet like this??) I counted 23 rolls of unopened christmas paper rolls!!! 23! That is crazy...I wont have to buy paper for the rest of my life BUT I promise you next year I will be there with the 50,000 other people buying it half price at Target the day after Christmas. I also have about 50 different present bags....again....dont ever need to buy anymore. I just need to remember that I have all this stuff next Christmas! But I wont, I know it. Today was the perfect day to clean house as it was cloudy and gloomy....sort of good sleeping weather as well as cleaning weather! Hopefully tomorrow will be nice and I can do something outside.

Playboy Channel on Sirius XM

I have a confession...and since very few people read this...it is OK to confess here! I truly enjoy listening to Playboy radio, in particular, the afternoon show with Tiffany Grannith. Why, I dont know....it is not erotic and I dont get off listening to them but there is something about listening to the other callers that just get me going. I think it is that they are freely and openly talking about sexual situations and it is something that I dont ever do with anyone I know personally. So when I am listening, I am thinking "Wow, I have thought that or felt that way too." I think it is strange that a gay guy is listening to a bunch of straight people talk about sex but I am amazed at the issues that are out there!

When Boys Fly

Saw the film/doc last night of "When Boys Fly"...very interesting look at the White Party Circuit guys and what they go thru....very intriguing as it has always been something that I have stayed away for some reason....I think because I do not really fit into that society easily. And just as one of the guys on there said, it was not his scene but he was forcing himself to go and see for himself. It was eye-opening to him and what he realized was that they were all friends and something was lacking in his life. Two things that he said were very relevant I thought. One, that more people needed to be as happy and care free as these people were at this event...there would be fair less trouble in the world. And Two, that he was lacking a group of gay friends for him to relate to in his "real world"

It was a great short film and very thought provoking.

I Start

So I start this blog hoping that I will be able to keep up with it and meet some new friends thru this cyber community that seems to be popular. I think I consider myself to be a loner even though I am not sure why as I am always around people. It is interesting that I think about the strangest of things at the strangest times. And I am preplexed about talking about them because it instantly "establishes" a persona that may not be true at all. For instance, I often wonder about what types of underwear that guys wear....now, does that make me a prevert or am I just curious? I think it is more of just wanting to know....I am a huge people watcher and I guess it is just a game I play with myself. I dont ever want to act upon it but I often try to think what they are wearing....but if I "blog" about that subject, it is going to be an issue and people will think less of me. Then I pose the question...why do I care? I shouldn't but I do!

So there you go, I have started.....