Being Nude

One of the blogs that I look at on a daily basis is More Ordinary People  it is a cool website and I really enjoy looking at the pics. I often wish there were ways to tell some of them how nice their pics are but I know that would be incredibly hard to put that info with every pic.  But this morning, I was wondering....how many of the pics were staged or was the person really naked doing the mundane tasks that he was doing.  One dude was sawing a piece of lumber in the kitchen....another was digging in the dirt with a shovel.  My question is do they do those things naked all the time and someone happened upon them and took their pic or is it staged?  Some of them I know are staged and it is obvious...but there are others.  I know my buddy and brother have popped in un-announced a few times and caught me with no clothes on...no biggie but I wasnt working on a construction project or digging in a dirt pile!  So I wonder...............

I do have to say that this picture

Got me wondering how comfortable the guy on the left was being nude with the other guys who are a little more hung.  I am like the guy on the left, a grower not a shower....I tend to turtle most of the day with just the head and about an inch or so hanging....there is another pic that shows this dude frontal and his balls are pretty big like mine so his ever hangs below his balls.  It is obvious that he is pretty comfortable with these guys and that is pretty cool.   I have said before, I wish that I could find someone like that to hang with.

Answers to a few Questions

YEAH for me....someone asked questions!  Thanks for reading and inquiring.

I decided to make a post out of it instead of responding in the comments.   Anonymous Brother Bear asked:

Do you have a partner?   No, that is something that I have finally come to terms with that it is conceivable that I will not be lucky in that department.  I have had a few meaningful relationships but not a partner for life.  My situation gets complicated as I have a 12 yr old son that lives with me so guys tend to shy away if kids are involved but I know that ultimately it is more important to give my son a good home then to search for a partner.  Who knows the future holds, I am open to anything.

What's your most intimate memory?  I think a weekend in Key West with a guy that I lived with for about two years back about 12 yrs ago.  We went down for a long weekend with another couple and stayed at Alexander's B & B...it was a great place and I think we were in the bedroom more then anything else that weekend.  It was a perfect weekend.  I stretched my limits by even having a foursome with the other couple, it was really awesome but not something that we wanted to try again but at the time, and in the moment, it was great.

How did you relate to the surfer guys who stripped down to change to dry clothes and not relate to the guys in the cigar bar?  Well I think nostalgia probably played into that alot, I think when you are young, it is easy to make friends in the neighborhood and that just moved to surfing, skiing, swimming....so it was easy to "be" in that group of surfers.  It was the natural progression and I was part of that progression because I was part of them when we were kids.  With the cigar group, we have egos to contend with....everyone is in there own little world and I guess that I would have to go there every night in order to become comfortable and part of their clik.  I think now, guys...especially guys in their 40's....start to size each other up and it is hard to move in because you are bringing alot of baggage with you.  Another friend of mine said that I should make the first move to show them I am a nice guy....I should.

Will you do it on the first date?   Depends on the situation and how we feel about each other.  It is not out of the question but usually not something that happens.

Do you like to have your berries bathed in saliva? UMMM....HELLO....I AM A GUY....OF COURSE!!!

Like your blog, just found it.   Glad you found it...."Follow" me so we can stay in touch....do you have a blog?

Buddies

I was watching a really really bad movie last night called "Lucky Bastard"....it was a terrible movie but the character in it was searching for something and could not find it...he finally discovered that what was missing was a friendship.  I have stated before, I have the most incredible set of friends but would really like to find a special friend that I could hang with, have dinner with, watch a movie but more to.  There are sometimes when you just want to be naked with someone, lay on the couch and watch a movie in each others arms.  There is a guy that cuts my lawn and he often brings his friend with him.  He is always telling me about their adventures in surfing, picking up chicks, drinking, etc.  And he often will mention that they sleep in the same bed when they are drunk.  I think it would be cool to be so close to someone that you were very secure with your bodies and sexualities to be able to shower together, piss together, sleep in the bed...etc....all the while really be friends and not in a sexual relationship.  I think it would be an interesting concept.  Sometimes I just have comments and funny thoughts that I think I would like to share with someone but kind of feel strange telling some of my friends.  I guess that is why I try to blog!  Case in point was this morning, "lil bobby" was looking really nice this morning, kind of semi hard but nicely hung....wish someone had seen it!

Taking Care of Business

I was doing my morning ritual of catching up on the blogs that I read this morning and was reading Straight Jock Talking .  He posed the question of why we like to get caught doing whatever sexually.  One guy commented that that was why we had brothers!  To catch us in the act!  Another guy commented that he liked to get caught in action.  So why is that? Is it because when we were kids learning about jerking it that we thought it was bad and we secretly wanted everyone to know we did it but could tell no one?  I dont know.  I know that I like watching porn that is amateur and created by two guys not when it is staged  with music....I like the real thing.  I think that is all part of it, again, your not supposed to be in the room with them but you are!  You arent supposed to jack off but you do.  Speaking of that, I think I got caught about 4 or 5 times growing up but I will be damned if I did not get caught by my roommate in college at least twice a week!  And I know he did not do it on purpose, we just were on the same schedules and he was always popping into the room quietly.  It really got to be  a joke and by the end of the first year, we both just did it without too much comment.  At night, when it was completely dark, we would both jack off and then say good night to each other!  Weird now, but I kind of miss it.

Balls, Berries,Etc

As a guy we know that there are two things that are very important to us....commonly and collective reffered to as "our junk" , "twigs and berries" , "rod and reel"....what ever you call it...your balls make up half of your "manhood" down there.  I for one love a the scrotum and it contents.  It really is an amazing part of your body as one minute it can be hanging halfway to your knees and the next it can be retracting up into your lungs!  I find that amazing.  Mine are on the bigger end of the spectrum which causes my cock to appear stubbish....but after many years I have realized we are all different and I am not soo paranoid about showing the boys off in the locker room or wherever.  My balls usually stay pretty tight but there are some days when I just like to play and stare at them in the mirror as they are really hanging.  I like to keep them clean shaven even though a little fuzz on them never hurt anyone!

Posting

 I am saddened to read that one of the blogs that I follow is leaving.  Scott Str8 Jock Talking aka The Gayest Str8 Guy  had a great blog and I have to say that I looked forward to reading it every day.  I think I liked it so much because his blogs were very often things I related to or had experience with.  It was a view point from a guy that relalized lifestyles are much more then "I am straight" or "I am gay"....they can be alot in the middle as well.....it is sad that he is leaving but I understand commitments to could give it a good try but I have such a hard time thinking about subject matter.  I mean by that...that I often think of things to write about but it is not always convenient to sit down and write.....so I think, " I will do that later, I will remember the subject matter" but that never happens!

On another front, 5 days till Peru!!!!!!!!!!!  It is hard to imagine that it is winter there!

Discussions

I have 5 followers (YEAH) but now the pressure is on to write something....but what?  So I will ask my 5 followers.....ask me something? anything?  no holds barred....I will answer honestly.  I am happy to have a few guys following but how do  I get more?  So talk to me....I am a pretty friendly guy!